Just when you thought "stop hatin'" was the most over-used phrase, there's another contender for the title. Is it me or does it seem like whenever someone mentions the possibility of something potentially positive, exciting, inviting, satisfying or a glimmer of hope some naysayer says, "yeah, but"...does that mean that you have to scratch your goals, relinquish your determination, abandon courage and defer your dreams? You had better not!