Recently I received an invitation to a small get together. I was excited about the event, so when I RSVP’d, I decided to confirm the appropriate attire. The hostess stated that the event was semiformal–dressy. That is when my red flag went off. So I didn’t stop there. I asked again, “so a beaded purse and a little black dress, will be ok?” She corrected me. “No, just nice.” She then informed me that she was wearing a tank with nice slacks. What she really meant was no jeans and sneakers–dress casual.
This isn’t the first time I’ve been left discombobulated over a dress code. The problem is that our society has become so overly casual, that the standard for dressing up is so low, that it barely exist. In some circles, a man having his pants up and a woman’s bra strap not showing are saying something. Rainy Day Divas know better. But the fact is that most of us don’t have enough opportunity to don our best and step out in style. Don’t be afraid to ask or look up this type of information. o in case you’ve forgotten or never really knew the difference between formal, semiformal and cocktail dress codes, don’t be afraid to look it up.
Here’s a cheat sheet for you.
SemiFormal for Women–dressy dress or suit in evening fabric (tafetta, velvet, chiffon, etc), mid-calf or shorter (ballroom gowns are usually formal), evening shoes and small bag (leave the COACH and Louis at home).
SemiFormal for Men–dress suit with shirt and tie (don’t forget the tie); A tuxedo is not necessary.
Have fun!