Let’s face it, falling off is easy to do. It can happen to anyone: a billionaire talk show host like Oprah or yours truly. The usual blame goes to: time and money. Or should I say lack there of. So many people will say their finances are the reason why they can’t maintain their style/health (choose one). No matter how bad the economy is (and it’s bad), I’ve noticed a few things:
1. The lines at the drive-thru aren’t any shorter.
2. People still have the money to buy cigarettes.
3. Liquor stores aren’t laying off.
If you know where I’m going with this, you might say, “But those are addictions.” Addictions? Maybe. But what if you were to get addicted to health, happiness, feeling good, positive conversation–just being the best you could be.
What if you skipped two value meals and replenished your foundation?
What if you watched Fitness TV instead of Flavor of Foolishness?
What if you reduced your cable bill, let’s say opting for a meager 300 channels, and kept your hair appointment?
What if, you invested 99¢ in a nail file and did your own manicure?
Feeling good is NOT a luxury. It is a must! Looking like the Sea Hag never helped anybody! If you’ve lost a job, you will probably need another one or you’ll start your own business, or possibly find a wealthy man. In any case, the way you present yourself is important. And believe it or not, it is most important to you and your well-being.
Is time the issue? Well, if you are so important that you are needed by everybody, for everything, all of the time, doesn’t that make you important enough to be a priority?
Maybe finances and time are not your problem/excuse (choose one). A breakup, perhaps? The relationship may not have worked out, but your life has to. This is the best time to commit to loving you. Buy yourself a ring! Until the next time, celebrate your freedom, peace of mind, and space–the very things people in relationships complain about not having.
Don’t lose yourself in your circumstances.
We have the time, energy and resources for what we deem important, and that should include you.
What do you do or plan to do to maintain self and sanity in challenging times?
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